Monday, June 26, 2017

NLIGHTEN CC CUSHION REVIEW


Good Day Beauties! Few days ago, I published a review for NLighten Eye Gel. It was one of the bestselling product. Today, let me share to you yet another revolutionary product review of NWORLD’s NLighten CC Cushion. NLighten CC (Color Control) Cushion is a revolutionary air cushion technology. It is a light weight base makeup helps achieve a flawless coverage and is specially formulated to perform several functions, from skin lightening, protection against the harmful UVA and UVP rays of the sun through its broad spectrum SPF 50+/PA+++. One advantage of NLIGHTEN CC CUSHION is designed for all skin types. NET WT. 15g


NLIGHTEN CC CUSHION helps obtain a nourished skin with its superior anti-oxidant and hydration contents and ensures a luminous finish by filling the micro lines efficiently.

Formulated without Paraben, Phenoxy Ethanol, Benzophenone, Triethanolamine, Talc, Petrolatum, Mineral Oil, Synthetic Pigment, Synthetic Fragrance and SLS.

DIRECTIONS FOR USE


Apply by pressing the puff into an essence sponge and gently pat it onto your face. For touch ups, re-apply as desired.

PRECAUTIONS

For external use only.
Do not swallow.
Avoid contact with eyes.
Discontinue use if signs of irritation or rashes appear.
Keep out of reach of children.
In case of accidental ingestion, seek professional assistance or contact a Poison Control Center immediately.
Store at room temperature not exceeding 30°C.
Do not expose product to direct sunlight.

It is also important to note that NLIGHTEN CC CUSHION is water and plant base.

Here are the 5 Botanical Ingredients
CALENDULA OFFICINALIS "POT MARIGOLD"

Calendula oil is highly regarded for dry and damaged skin due to its restorative properties that infuses the skin with a youthful glow. It is also used to protect the skin from premature aging and thinning of the skin. Calendula is also very good on delicate skin under the eyes to help prevent crow’s feet. Also, Calendula are used to treat diaper rush too. Through the years, calendula has been considered as beneficial in reducing inflammation, heals wounds and a variety of skin diseases like skin ulcerations, eczema, juvenile acne and dry phthiriasis.

Historically, and still today, one of the most popular uses of calendula has been applying it to irritated skin (or to the eyelids and elsewhere) to reduce itchiness, redness, sensitivity, dryness and swelling. It’s been found that calendula has the ability to promote the growth of healthy new tissue, increase blood flow to the affected area, boost collagen production, which firms and strengthens skin, hydrate dry skin and speed up the process of skin repair following surgery or damage.

The antibacterial properties in this herb helps in clearing the bacteria in the skin pores which may lead to acne outbreak.

PAEONIA SUFFRUTICOSA

Peaunia Suffruticosa featured as the “Queen of Flowers” surely will leave your skin glowing and beautiful because of the many benefits this flower provides. Peaony extract has an antioxidant effect like that of Vitamin E. It has an anti-inflammatory benefit soothing your skin, it has anti free radical action offering an anti-aging benefit. The Peony powder can be infused in water and can be used as calming lotion. Also, Peonies contains high concentration of tannins. Tannins are potent skin-illuminating concentrate making it a perfect ingredient as a skin-brightener. Peonia’s major purpose in skin care is to serve as skin conditioning agent.

White Peony Root is prized for its anti-inflammatory, toning and anti-aging properties. Peonies help ward off wrinkles by activating the natural defense mechanisms of skin and reducing the look of discoloration often caused by environmental pollutants. Also, it is known for boosting the production of collagen and repairing damaged skin cells, peonies hydrate the skin while reinforcing its moisture barrier.

BEES WAX

Beeswax has long-standing applications in human food and flavoring. Beeswax is a natural emulsifier which means can help bind oil and water together in a solution without an emulsifier, these ingredients would separate or turn cloudy. Beeswax is widely known as a base for a variety of skincare products because it prevents further damage and allows the skin to heal, seals in moisture, and soften skin without synthetic chemical additives.

This quality makes beeswax an ideal natural base for moisturizers, lip balms and skin salves with both oil- and water-based ingredients.

Known mostly for its conditioning properties, beeswax also has a number of other benefits for the skin, including an action that helps to calm and soothe.

Beeswax also a great help for people suffering from dry skin itching or sensitive skin because it has anti-allergenic and easily tolerated by those with reactive skin.

We always say there’s no reason to use harsh chemicals to make products smell good. Natural ingredients work so much better! Beeswax has a natural honey fragrance, and is a favorite in soaps and perfumes because of its pleasant, light aroma.

A good source of this vitamin, beeswax helps exfoliation and can rejuvenate your look. Beeswax has been used in creams for centuries to soften skin, remove wrinkles and heal eczema and dermatitis. It has many scientifically validated benefits for skin health because it contains a number of very special 'fatty acids.'

MURUS ALBA "WHITE MULBERRY BARK"
Mulberry extracts are great components of skin-whitening products due to its active compound in lightening skin called arbutin. Arbutin is a form of hydroquinone that inhibits melanin release by suppressing the tyrosinase enzyme.

It also contains Morus alba extracts with antioxidizing and whitening properties. The present invention relates to cosmetic products, comprising extracts of Morus alba, which have a whitening effect. Powdered Morus alba twig with aqueous ethanol provides an extract comprising oxyresveratrol and mulberroside.

The extracts or purified compounds may be added to conventional skin care cosmetics to give whitening cosmetics.

This formulation of cream containing 4% concentrated extract of mulberry can be used for skin whitening as it can decrease skin melanin content. Furthermore, the decrease in erythema showed that the cream will be safe to use and will not cause any irritation.

SCUTELLARIA BAICALENSIS

These antioxidant properties appear to provide significant protection from sun damage. Skullcap is increasingly included in skin care products for the benefits offered by its potent antioxidant, anti-inflammatory, and skin-brightening properties.

Skullcap extract is also a very potent tyrosinase inhibitor with great potential to down regulate production of melanin. It can protect against sun damage.

Skullcap’s three most important antioxidants are flavonoids baicalein, oroxylin A, and wogonin.

Here are some of the CC Cushion users





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Thursday, June 22, 2017

NLIGHTEN UNDERARM CREAM REVIEW

Good Day gorgeous!

We all want to have a fairer skin. We wanted to have that beautiful radiant skin and of course we all have our fair share of dark secrets. Even beauty queens have their dark secrets, mostly found in arm pits, knees, groin areas and nape.

That’s the reason why, beauty companies keeps formulating different products to solve these skin problems.

This past few months I found a product that I highly recommend both for men and women.

Nlighten Underarm Cream is one of the most quick selling products of the Nworld and here’s why I recommend the product:



It gives instant whitening effect giving immediate confidence level to wear those sleeveless.The cream is very easy to apply. All you need is squeeze an ample amount enough to cover the area where you want to lighten.It is organic. NLIGHTEN UNDERARM CREAM is water and plant base product making it safer and non-greasy feelingIt’s worth the price.You can see the result in just 3 weeks.The fragrance is not too harsh. With the fragrance not overrated, it will give you the freedom to use your deodorant and or your perfume.

  And the main reason why I recommend it is because it is plant based and water base too.

Ingredients of the product contains:


STAR LILY – Is best known for its wonders in treating skin ailments. Its oil also has moisturizing and soothing properties of the skin, softening and preventing skin cracks, stains and preventing the attenuation of their appearance. Also, Lily Oil can easily be used with other oils and when mixed with calendula it works well for sensitive skin.



SHEA BUTTER – Shea Butter is considered as one of Nature’s Wonder because of its wide array of usage from skin care, baby care to food. Shea Butter is also one of Queen Nefertiti’s beauty secret as Shea butter is so powerful to renew, repair and protect the skin against aging and harsh climate.



POMEGRANATE – Pomegranate oil derived from its seed makes a great dry skin treatment. It’s oil penetrates easily into the skin; it has anti-inflammatory and soothing properties, antioxidant protection, the punicic acid (which is called also trichosanic acid) and omega-5 fatty acids is very helpful as it quickly rejuvenate, soothe, moisturize and breath a new life to dry and cracked skin.



MULBERRY – Mulberry is known for its skin whitening properties, white mulberry extract has tyrosinase, an enzyme that triggers production of melanin in the skin. Mulberry also contains Vitamin B3 and has been shown to reduce the production of melanin and acts as an effective skin-lightening agent when added to skin creams. Vitamin B helps the skin retain its moisture and making it smoother while reducing fine lines.



FIG – Fig contains high amount of Vitamin C which helps lighten and even out skin tone. The peels contains active enzymes acting as am exfoliator to clear dead cell debris from the skin. Fig also helps tighten the pores and control excess sebum secretion. The enzymes and sugar present in figs aside from removing the dead skin cells it also mildly polish the skin.



GINKGO – In several studies proves that the hydrating effect of Ginkgo extracts extends to the deeper layers of the skin. Ginkgo helps epidermal thickening, higher elasticity. It has been found that ginkgo improves the skin’s protection from UVB rays and improve the production of collagen which helps the skin firm and youthful. Its main promise in skin care is its antioxidant compounds helping skin from aging and damages caused by free radicals helping protect skin from signs of aging like wrinkles, sagging and age spots.



BLACK RICE – The antioxidant nature of black rice is effective in safeguarding the skin. Black rice helps prevent skin damages caused by pollutants and sun, skin aging, dark spots and fine lines. It provides antioxidants along with other proteins to skin which will help in restoring skin elasticity and maintain firmness. The anthocyanin present prevents free radical damage in the body and protects against UV damage.

 BLUEBERRY – Blueberries are considered as “super food” as it contain the most antioxidants than any other fruit as it has content of anthocyanin. These berries also contains vitamins A, B complex, C and E, potassium, zinc, copper, iron and magnesium. This super fruit is helps smoothen the skin, prevent fine lines and wrinkles, eliminate scars, increase elasticity, fight against blemishes and acne, balance levels of oil in the skin, and help even out skin tone. Blueberry cultivars and blueberry fruits revealed antimicrobial properties.


GREEN TEA – Green tea contains catechins, which are anti-bacterial agents that suppress acne-causing bacteria and help regulate hormonal imbalances. It also possesses potent anti-inflammatory properties that help reduce the redness and inflammation brought about by zits, thereby helping them heal the scars. Green tea also contains antioxidants which helps ward off premature aging by fighting free radicals and healing damaged cells. Green Tea helps soothes and calms the skin, reduces itching and inflammation, while simultaneously tackling cuts, scrapes and other blemishes.



HOUTTUYNIA CORDATA – Houttuynia Cordata can be used for detoxifying the body systems due to its antibacterial and antiviral properties. It can be used for treating infectious diseases due to its anti-viral and antibacterial properties.



Formulated without Paraben, Phenoxy Ethanol, Benzophenone, Triethanolamine, Talc, Petrolatum, Mineral Oil, Synthetic Pigment and SLS.



How to use it?

After taking a bath , dry your underarm using towel.

Get a small amount of product on your fingertips and gently put it on your underarm.

Wait for 10 seconds and let your underarm absorb the product.

For better result, use it overnight.

Here are some of the testimonials from users:







Tuesday, June 20, 2017

The Network Marketting Business

The Network Marketing Business

Am sure everyone of you may have been invited to a network marketing business. Some may have considered joining some thinks it’s a scam or otherwise not a feasible business. The negativities surrounding the said kind of business has boiled down from few years ago when there are illegitimate companies claiming they are into MLM type of business or some are due to a bad experience.

I have coined some of the benefits in joining a Multi-Level Marketing (MLM) Business and some tips to consider before joining an MLM so as you will not be a victim of SCAM.

Why Join the Multi-Level Marketing Business?

1. EXTRA INCOME – if you are a regular employee be it in a rank and file positon or in a managerial position we somehow still need some sort of an extra income to support the growing expenses that we incur every month. In a Philippine setting, our culture somehow revolves around the family. We support our kids go to school and all the other needs that they may have, however due to close family ties, we also support our brothers and sister go to college, our nephews and nieces, our parents and sometimes even our uncles. Joining the MLM company will augment the ballooning income deficiency or an extra income that you can save up towards your retirement fund or your emergency fund.

2. Business at your Convenience – The MLM business is also a perfect avenue where you could make extra income at your own convenient time. Making use of your day off to sell your products to your neighbor, friends or even to social media platform. A mother for example after doing her household chores she can roam around the neighborhood selling her stuff from the MLM industry. Or while chatting in through Facebook messenger you can also offer your products through your social media account.

3. Expansion of Network – We are all doing networking in one way or the other. We network with our colleagues and our boss at work for job growth or with the right professional network, it would be easier for us to run and implement a certain project at work. With your engagement to the MLM business you will be exposed outside your normal personal or professional network thus leveraging you to expand your network as you meet other people through your peers/downline in the business.

The networking or direct selling business provides a wide array of potential residual income that you can take advantage to fill the gap of your income deficit. The potential in growing in these type of business is limitless; it is a matter of tapping your network (people around you) either selling the product with them or inviting them to join you in the business. The opportunity to earn is limitless but it was never a get rich quick scheme, you still must do the work.

Sunday, April 30, 2017

When I Remember You


By: Charlton D. Kis-ing

I was lying in bed alone one rainy afternoon. I hear the rain drops splattering in the rooftop. I hear the wind blew softly from my window pane. I decided to wake up and open my window enough to watch the rain drops and feel the cool wind. Ah! It gives me chills as it soothes my withered body. I hear the children laughing and screaming at the top of their lungs enjoying and playing under the comfort of the summer rain.

I feel the joy of these children running around and playing, throwing muds at each other. The innocents in them transcends. These kids are worry free and so I thought they’re free and they’re enjoying every minute that they have playing.

I remember the vulnerability and freedom of being a kid. I remember the time when I cherished the mud fish given by my childhood friend before he left me with no playmates left. I remember the times when I playing under the avocado tree, playing wet soils wet by my own urine, crying over a pet and laughing with my dog.

I imagine I was playing with them. I imagine laughing with them. Then I remember I was alone in my house so dark and so quiet. Then I remember I am now at 40. I checked my watch and its almost sunset. I know someone would come. I remember I was waiting for someone to come. I know someone so special and yet so dear to me would come. I smell the aroma of the coffee coming from my neighbor’s house. “Ahhh smells so good! Smells so refreshing.” That aroma. I remember a place. My favorite since I was 25 years old. I remember the coziness of the place. I smiled. I know that place is special. I know I made it so special and so dear.

“Uncle!” I heard someone, a child’s voice. So, angelic and so sweet. I saw the child waiving so I waived back to the child then I saw him running away playing with the other kids. That kids face looks so familiar. I remember someone with that face.

Then I felt cold that I shiver down my bones. I felt my muscles are shaking. I felt my back is aching. I felt I was in a roller coaster ride. I felt I was spinning. I felt I was falling. Then I heard a scream, “Daddy, uncle fell!”, screamed the child. I can’t see anything. It was dark. I just felt cold and numb. I was shivering. I can’t move anything.

BLAGGG! I heard. I think it was the door opening. I hear footstep. I hear someone’s talking. I listened attentively. 

“Rey… hey buddy! Rey wake up.”

“Can someone help. Please call an ambulance.”

I feel him shaking me. I feel him hugging me. I feel the warmth of his embrace. It feels familiar. I tried to open my eyes wide. I touched his face. I touched his nape, his nose and his lips. “I know it’s you. I remember you”, I said.

“Shhhhh. I am happy you remember me my friend,” he replied.

“It was you I had been waiting for all these time. I haven’t seen you in a while, I will be waiting for you even in the after life till we will have more time to spend," I said

Then the numbness is growing fast, everything is fading away, and I felt I am freezing cold. I can’t understand what their saying. Everything is fading away. I no longer can’t hear anything, I can’t see anything, I can’t feel anything.

Monday, April 24, 2017

When It Rains It Pours

Everyone of us may probably know what my title is all about. Its actually very simple and very straight forward. "If things go wrong everything seems wrong but when opportunity knocks then there'd be a lot as well.

Many times in my life I somehow could atest to the moments where everything seems to be falling and or everything seems to be workin in my favor. We all have this moments in our life. The thing here is when everything is falling into the cracks the best is just to keep on sailing on, it shall pass like many other moments in our life. A storm can only stay and shatter you in a given amount of time just indure it and before we know it... it has passed its time.

There will also be moments in our life when we enjoy the bright and sunny days of our life. At this point in time, we shouldnt be relaxing we should enjoy that moment as we prepare when another storm should pass. The choice we make in these beautiful side of our life is our shield when another storm will pass...

In everything, I trust in God. I pray to Him when I am happy. I PRAY when I am sad. Trusting him in any way makes me delighted and at ease. In search for a new job or starting up a business its definitely about HIM... I knew I can never go wrong when I trust in Him.

Oportunities come in many forms and in many ways. So its up to you when you grab those opportunities and make the most of it because those opportunities do come to help you prepare for the days where everything seems to be falling apart.

We have summer time to prepare and we have spring to harvest and we have rainy days to enjoy what we have harvested. Thats the season of life and thats what I shall do moving forward.

Sunday, April 9, 2017

The Leader In Me

Finding the Leader in Me
By: Charlton Domoguen Kis-ing


Miranda Priestly of Devils Wears Prada is always the kind of character that I perceive to be a great leader when I am starting my career. She has that character and personality so strong that would make you prioritize what she wants. She has a very good command and power that when she barges into the office, she already conveys message easily understood by everyone even without her saying any words.

As years go by, I then reassess myself and the kind of leadership I want to employ. I started asking myself, would I want to be a leader so stiff that no one dares to commit a mistake. Do I want to become someone else’s Miranda Priestly in their career life so afraid to commit a mistake because they’d know they’ll be eaten by the mighty lion ready to snap his jaw around their neck because they can’t deliver the expectation that I have in place?

Then I realized, being a Miranda Priestly is not someone I am made up for. I never wanted to be that dreadful person who makes everyone pee when I arrive. A leader who is like Miranda Priestly makes shiver and a leader who employs fear to get ths job done.

As I mature, my perception about effective leader has changed. A leader is a mother so tender to understand his children no matter what happen. A leader is a father who has that ample amount toughness to sail the team towards the goal. A leader influences his people to do what is right. Above all, a leader is someone who can work tirelessly with his people towards achieving the goal, sailing together towards one mission and sharing one vision.

I wanted to be like Moana who leads her people by example. Who defy norms to save her people. That one leader who is willing to sacrifices herself for her people. Thats the leader who I want to become. The leader who operates for and by the people.

Take the leap and take the courage to take off.

Saturday, March 25, 2017

My Sweetest Hello

There will be so many nights when all we ever wanted is to love and be love. The night when we lay our heads on our pillow as we all have our sweetest hugs to that someone we care and love so much. Love does come in so many ways and so many forms.


Yes that is Love. Love somehow just like a wind. It blows swiftly and gently to alure and cool the burning flame of the sun. But just like the wind it can dispense water of the ocean and will swift the things in the land. Love if nortured it does magical things but sometimes LOVE also brings distruction to its host.

Those were the thoughts flowing down in my dreams. Hays... hopeless romantic... Sometimes all I needed ata is the love I imagined to have that even in my dreams my mind is painting it for me.

I was in these deep realization when I decided to doze back to bed.

I felt someone is touching my hear. Carressing it and humming a sweet song I never heard. When I openned my eyes and tried to wake up.

"Stop. My love please go back to sleep. I am just here to keep you safe. I am here to keep you company. I am here to warm you up in the coldest of the night."

As he is talking. I see his face so calm so tender. The lips so thin and yet so kissable. The eyes shaped as an almond. The nose that complements his face.

Niether did I know I felt safe in his arm. I felt the warmth and the comfort. I rested on his lap and closed my eyes as he continously humming.

I woke up the next day as I felt the sun started kissing my face. I woke up and to my amaze I dont see someone except me. I felt disappointed and aghast. Despite that I felt I am complete. I felt I am in love. I felt I am different. I felt excited to be back to sleep to feel the warmth of the man in my dreams.

I almost always pulled the day to end. I wanted to go back to where I felt safe, to where I felt the warm embrace, to hear the sweetest hum and to cuddle in someone's arm, to feel the love I ever longed for.

To my surprise in the deepest of my sleep. I hear the hum in such low baritone voice. It is sweet, it is soothing. "Where are you? I wanted to see you. I wanted to feel you," I shouted. No one answered. I shouted and I scream. I heard nothing but a hum. It slowly fades as the area goes dark. Pitch black then a total silence. I heard nothing I see nothing. Then it feels cold. Freezing cold. I can hear nothingness. I can taste the coldness. It was just one SWEET HELLO.

Thursday, March 23, 2017

How to Solve Boredom

Have you ever come up to a point where everything seems routinary? Feeling bored and burned out?

There'll always be a point where everything becomes routinary at work. At that point in time you'll be exhausted and feeling unproductive that even though you had tons of activity at work outside of your normal job description it still is not working.

Well at some point I had come to that point and if I cant overcome it I'm sure I'd have everything falling into the crack. Having tons of extra activities sometimes doesnt help that feeling of exhaustion.

If this hits you up, the solution is simple. For me, doing something outside your workplace helps kill that feeling of work exhaustion. Something that is physical and social. For me, one of my activity during my day off when I felt going to the gym or doing so off road running and brisk walking is not helping me eliminate those extra energy that is untapped, I visit my friends food store and do some chores there.

In this way, I would have the chance ro divert those untapped energy and make use of it. Sometimes we got bored on what we do because thats the only thing we've been doing day in and day out. At least when you get back to work after your day off, you were able to divert all your energy to a totally different environment and get back to work feeling refreshed.

Wednesday, March 22, 2017

My ME Time is HYBRID FITNESS Time?

That was a long week! From my usual daily grind of taking in calls to attending classroom and online trainings to doing post work activities. From a fixed schedule to definitely roller coaster schedules and definitely shattered sleeping patterns. I definitely needed a ME TIME.

This is my time to clear off my lungs piled with smoke, to clear my thoughts and to definitely blow off those piling belly fats.

I know I have to finish reading the books and reviewing my training notes but it simply is not working. Nothing is registering when your mind is tired, as soon as I woke up from a 13 hrs of hybernation I did some stretching and started to hit that ground from my house to the beautiful EVIA along Daang Hari Road.

I basically do a little of jogging and alot of brisk walking and definitely tons and tons of breathing exercise.

There will always be a time when we are simply just get so tired and frustrated at work. I have that at times and that my only way to escape and or move forward is simply to just sweat out those stressful thoughts and flash them out of my system.

I found peace at the gym or everytime I am doing some cardio exercise. It helps me clear my mind and organize my thoughts.

So after almost 2 hours of running and brisk walking I finally decided to go home. Along the way, I saw a gym to a newly openned mall along Daang Hari pretty close to my house. I decided to drop by and ask for their rates and try to see as to what they have to offer.

The gym is definitely nice, clean and thier equiptments are of course brand new and I guess a state of the art facilities. They stand by their name HYBRID FITNESS as I can guarantee their equiptments are dope and their gym trainors are buffylicious hahaha if I may say. I mean their trainors are definitely fit and hunky.
Photo is owned by HYBRID FITNESS GYM no copyright infringement is intended

So, if you are interested go check out there gym located at ALL HOME along Daang Hari Road Molino Cavite. They are open from 6AM to 10PM Monday to Saturday and 8 AM to 9PM on Sunday.

However, I havent had the chance to see if their shower room and their locker area since I am not a member. I wanted to take a picture to so as I could show you guys as to how it looks like but I was told I am not allowed even having a picture with their logo at the front desk I wasnt allowed too.

I am a little bit disappointed because I was so excited to take a picture and show how beautiful their gym was but I guess I will be sharing you more photos when I finally decided to pay a membership with them.

Its summer time and I am sure you are almost ready to wear those bikini's and trunks and wanting to have that beach body which I am longing to have. Go check HYBRID FITNESS and a certified gym instructor in a fully airconditioned modern gym with a brand new Gym equiptments. I am sure you'll be as excited as I am to cut off those flabby tummy.

Wanna know their rates? Here's what I got from that cute front desk guy


Alright, if you have visited the place let me know and comment your experience. So far based on my initial visit:
1. They have very neat and clean space.
2. Equiptment are indeed brand new.
3. They have a lot to offer.
4. They should allow people to take photos hahaha
5. The front desk is already friendly on my first appearance but his mood change a little in my second appearance asking is I can take a photo of their logo.
6. The place smells good it doesnt smell sweaty.
7. Staff should be smiling all the time.
8. Over all I will give them 7/10

Saturday, March 4, 2017

The Shack

The Shack is a movie where Tim Mcgraw, a loving father with a deep secret from his childhood.


The Shack has touched the soft spot in me. I cried a river while watching the movie because of the deep sorrow of the main character. The sorrow and depression he had to go through to the extent of questioning the mere existence of his creator.

Pain is the number one enemy of a person's growth and development. Pain if not managed properly is a deadend. It ends everything that you have. Pain can be a factor to someone elses depression.

In the movie The Shack, it is the wife, who is keeping the family together she acts as a mighty glue, a fuel in a relationship to keep it going and working. Without the wife strong belief and perseverance everyone would go astray. That I guess is the reality of life, we may be successful in whatever we do but time will come where we face great sorrow or pain that we cannot contain and we needed someone to step up to keep the ones we love and care in its proper order.

To free off yourself from the torments pain is causing you, it is inevitable for us to forgive no matter how hard it could be, no matter how discouraging it is, and no matter how painful it is to forgive that very person who is causing you so much pain. It is the only way for you to free off yourself and live the life you are meant to live.

It is life changing. I know it is hard to forgive but to finally say it over and over things gets easier to forgive geniunely. We can never be at peace or be happy if we keep the grudge and later on this very grudge will consume us without us knowing we are already in a pit hole, trapped, and unable to move forward.